Even in Ralfativity I have to accept that until a change in velocity is made, the two must be the same age. Age is elapsed time and yet in this discussion I see a valid coordinate time that is different from the elapsed time. I'm trying to understand that. You're saying if I draw 2 more lines my asymmetry in the reciprocity will disappear and I'll see I've created an asymmetry that doesn't really exist.But I think those two lines are there to create a valid elapsed time. That is outside of the discussion. I know how to establish a valid age difference. The question I'm asking here is different:
How can their ages be the same but their clock comparisons for a moment at the 3 ly mark between Bob's network clock and Alce's on-board clock have different times?
The answer is their age difference comes from comparing their on-board proper time clocks and this coordinate time difference comes from comparing 2 other clocks. I'm further saying that time difference forms a concrete foundation on which to base establishment of the age difference once a velocity change is made. This is where ralfativity and relativity diverge. Relativity must consider a complete start to stop spacetime path to establish age difference. I can calculate partial age difference for each change in velocity in real time. I can separate out the permanent age difference for non-stop velocity changes until the spacetime path is complete. In an experiment where no velocity changes are expected before the end of the spacetime path,I can accurately project what the age difference will be before the stop as Alice flies by my remote network clock. Relativity won't make that prediction because it states clock reciprocity between on-board clocks makes that impossible. I agree but when you add in the network clocks it makes the prediction possible. Since no subsequent action will affect that prediction, the age difference is established de facto before the age difference can be truly verified. So then I have to ask, why split hairs? The clock difference might as well be the age difference as it forms an irreversible basis for the final age difference at the end of the spacetime path.
P.S .The STD of two ships flying away or towards the earth at .33c yields a .6c relative velocity between them that does not result in an age difference if they both stop relative to earth and hence each other. I need to STD this because it's a special case where relative velocity and a stop does not result in age difference.